As quite frankly I'm at the end of my tether as it is and don't need a load of "anonymous" people telling me what a shit mother I am. I guess honestly isn't always the best policy.
I didn't get to read your last post, I know it was about nits but then my kids had a daft half hour and I got distracted! Anyway, not sure what you could have written that would make anyone say you're a shit mother, your not.
We all have a different approach to parenting and until one of us discovers the secret to perfect parenting, we should mind our business and stop throwing out stupid unfounded accusations!
Glass houses and stones comes to mind.
Ignore them, you're an excellent mother and if the worst that happens to your children is nits, well you're doing much better than most of us!
I read your last blog which you deleted, you should feel ashamed of yourself. In fact I have read a few of your blogs now and it appears to me you use your blog to get approval of your bad wife and mothering skills.
Do you know what? Yes, my kids had nits. Actually only one did but we are going to treat the other one too. Yes, I was a bit lazy about responding to it and I am a bit blase about them generally. Mainly because I know my sister in law has 4 kids, 3 of whom girls and they have had them on and off for years. More so when they were at school. My daughter more than likely caught them from there as she doesn't go to a nursery at present so the only person I will have inconvenienced in leaving it an extra day to treat is a) my mother in law (who has my SIL's kids all the time so probably gets them when they get them) and b) my sister in law and her kids who can be the only ones that Lala could have GOT them off. So quite frankly I don't think its that awful that I left it. Yes she was itchy and yes I was itchy but I was also exhausted. I dealt with it when it became clear that it was really bothering her. Now if anyone else wants to comment and give me shit for how I lead my life, please do it without hiding behind anonymous or I will delete your comments.
Oh also with regards to me being a bad wife, I've been married for 14 years, together for 18 so I must be doing something right. Interested to know what your relationship status is.
Oh just a point for you to consider; you are properly going to get sacked from your new job and that’s why they are not giving you work! Oh I can’t wait to read that as you will properly blame everyone else apart from yourself, wake up to the fact you are a waste of space and if it doesn’t concern you directly you don’t care!
Actually I am very good at my job. Its not just me that is not being given work. Its the whole department. Unless you are willing to use your name, kindly fuck off.
Thank you very much. I know I'm not perfect and I know that working full time is not ideal. I struggle to keep up with things and this was just one extra thing that I didn't need.
It is possible for you to stop anonymous posts, I'm not sure how to do it, but I'm sure someone will tell you. If someone hasn't the balls to identify themselves they should be thoroughly ashamed. Ignore them and carry on blogging. Best wishes, Joy xx
I read your last post. I don't think you're a bad mum, you're a busy mum and it's hard to find the time and energy to do everything! Nits are not life threatening, yes they are annoying but everyone has to deal with them sometimes, so what if you didn't get rid of them the minute you found them! Some people need to concentrate on their own lives before they go slagging off others parenting skills x
Anyone that says they are a perfect mum is a liar! I like to think I do an OK job but I'm not perfect by any stretch of the imagination. Don't let them get to you xx
Thanks. I know I'm not perfect, but its not easy both working full time. The guilt is bad enough without other people weighing in that you're a bad parent!
Anonymous is a dick who sadly should do some research. 1 in 3 children in any year, probably more in the UK will get a nit infestation. His just a sad troll with nothing better to do than insult someone. Probably cause his live is so pointless. The fact he hides behind his anonymity says everything. As for being an bad wife and mother I wouldn't have been with you for 18 years if I you were. What a sad twat.
Anonymous - it's 'probably' not 'properly'. Also, feel free to use grammar - punctuation is your friend! Uneducated little turd.
Abi - I love your blog. You moan with the best of them and tell it how it is. Ignore that odious little twerp. (Anon - odious means 'vile'. I thought you may need help with that.)
I didn't get to read your last post, I know it was about nits but then my kids had a daft half hour and I got distracted! Anyway, not sure what you could have written that would make anyone say you're a shit mother, your not.
ReplyDeleteWe all have a different approach to parenting and until one of us discovers the secret to perfect parenting, we should mind our business and stop throwing out stupid unfounded accusations!
Glass houses and stones comes to mind.
Ignore them, you're an excellent mother and if the worst that happens to your children is nits, well you're doing much better than most of us!
Thank you Amanda, I still have a copy of the post I wrote. I'm happy to email or facebook it to you if you email me at muminahurry@gmail.com.
DeleteOh, and if they want to criticise your parenting, they should have the balls to do it in 'person' not hiding behind anon!
ReplyDeleteQuite!
DeleteI read your last blog which you deleted, you should feel ashamed of yourself. In fact I have read a few of your blogs now and it appears to me you use your blog to get approval of your bad wife and mothering skills.
ReplyDeleteThen I suggest you stop reading and go read some "perfect" person's blog. Now fuck off.
DeleteDo you know what? Yes, my kids had nits. Actually only one did but we are going to treat the other one too. Yes, I was a bit lazy about responding to it and I am a bit blase about them generally. Mainly because I know my sister in law has 4 kids, 3 of whom girls and they have had them on and off for years. More so when they were at school. My daughter more than likely caught them from there as she doesn't go to a nursery at present so the only person I will have inconvenienced in leaving it an extra day to treat is a) my mother in law (who has my SIL's kids all the time so probably gets them when they get them) and b) my sister in law and her kids who can be the only ones that Lala could have GOT them off. So quite frankly I don't think its that awful that I left it. Yes she was itchy and yes I was itchy but I was also exhausted. I dealt with it when it became clear that it was really bothering her. Now if anyone else wants to comment and give me shit for how I lead my life, please do it without hiding behind anonymous or I will delete your comments.
DeleteOh also with regards to me being a bad wife, I've been married for 14 years, together for 18 so I must be doing something right. Interested to know what your relationship status is.
DeleteYou are really unreal.
DeleteOh just a point for you to consider; you are properly going to get sacked from your new job and that’s why they are not giving you work! Oh I can’t wait to read that as you will properly blame everyone else apart from yourself, wake up to the fact you are a waste of space and if it doesn’t concern you directly you don’t care!
Actually I am very good at my job. Its not just me that is not being given work. Its the whole department. Unless you are willing to use your name, kindly fuck off.
DeleteI didn't get to read your last post but please don't listen to the anonymous comments, your children are happy and that's all that matters, big hugs x
ReplyDeleteThank you very much. I know I'm not perfect and I know that working full time is not ideal. I struggle to keep up with things and this was just one extra thing that I didn't need.
DeleteIt is possible for you to stop anonymous posts, I'm not sure how to do it, but I'm sure someone will tell you. If someone hasn't the balls to identify themselves they should be thoroughly ashamed. Ignore them and carry on blogging. Best wishes,
ReplyDeleteJoy xx
Thank you. I will look into that. x
DeleteIf you weren't ashamed of it you wouldn't have deleted it!
ReplyDeleteIf you were any kind of human being you wouldn't be commenting as "Anonymous". Now please crawl back under whatever rock you crawled out of.
DeleteI read your last post. I don't think you're a bad mum, you're a busy mum and it's hard to find the time and energy to do everything! Nits are not life threatening, yes they are annoying but everyone has to deal with them sometimes, so what if you didn't get rid of them the minute you found them! Some people need to concentrate on their own lives before they go slagging off others parenting skills x
ReplyDeleteThank you. It means a lot to think not everyone thinks like that troll whoever they are. I know I'm not perfect but I do the best I can.
DeleteAnyone that says they are a perfect mum is a liar! I like to think I do an OK job but I'm not perfect by any stretch of the imagination. Don't let them get to you xx
DeleteThanks. I know I'm not perfect, but its not easy both working full time. The guilt is bad enough without other people weighing in that you're a bad parent!
DeleteAnonymous is a dick who sadly should do some research. 1 in 3 children in any year, probably more in the UK will get a nit infestation. His just a sad troll with nothing better to do than insult someone. Probably cause his live is so pointless. The fact he hides behind his anonymity says everything. As for being an bad wife and mother I wouldn't have been with you for 18 years if I you were. What a sad twat.
ReplyDeleteAw. Wuv you hubby. We can be shit parents together.
DeleteAnon is a troll, change your settings to block anon comments, let them go back to knocking one out in the dark!
ReplyDeleteDone it! Thanks x
DeleteAnonymous - it's 'probably' not 'properly'. Also, feel free to use grammar - punctuation is your friend! Uneducated little turd.
ReplyDeleteAbi - I love your blog. You moan with the best of them and tell it how it is. Ignore that odious little twerp. (Anon - odious means 'vile'. I thought you may need help with that.)
Love you Vicky!!!
DeleteHang on. Lala doesn't go to nursery she goes to Ema's where she got the nits in the first place.
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